Now after sharing this I feel light.. now I can sleep.. good night.
I cant understand, why cant she look at herself, she got into affair with a married man of two children ( yea she is a second wife) she didn't had baby ( because of her one silly mistake her baby died in womb and she couldn't conceive again ever). Now after death of her husband, her name again surfaced due to a rumor that she has extra casual friendship with her neighbor.
Initial stage of my marriage I was fighting 2 different battles with my in laws and my husband. She made sure I fight a third battle with her. She used to always tell me how my husband could find any fair complexion girl easily, how I am not a good fit for him. how he doesn't love me and forced to continue this marriage for name sake.
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She's my husband's Mami, (aunt). Why cant she still accept me and digest the fact that I am married to her favorite nephew, we are happy together and she cant change it even a bit.
Today it was my first time to visit any family function and meeting so many relatives after baby, she was one of them, first sentence she said to my baby is, “you are so rude, my Nephew is not rude, he is a good person, where did you get all this bad behaviors” “ you are like your mom, very insolent”
Whole evening i didn't reply to her rudeness, i simply ignored, because I know even if I say something she wont take another second to ruin someone's happy function. She will start creating fuss and ultimately she will tell something to my husband and he will behave as if all fault was mine.
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Little back story, she doesn't have a kid of her own due to some issues so she always treated my husband like her own son. My husband used to stay with his uncle and aunt in his school days. And she always looked after him as her own kid.
And rest of the evening she kept on saying similar things, she didnt hesitate to say “this is not my nephews kid”.
Its late, almost 1:30 at night, my baby's asleep, just returned from a birthday party of a close relatives, tired and exhausted, but still feels like sharing this with you Quorans. Because even though I attended a happy get together after almost 1.5 years break ( due to pregnancy and baby) I am not happy, because of one person who treated me so badly.
Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support.
I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized.
he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that.
he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened.
he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence.
i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me
i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction.
after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly.
things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it.
we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe …
our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far?
this has upset me so much its hard to even function.
Still cant axcept me, after 5 years of marriage and a baby??
She treated me badly since first day of our marriage, she made sure my first week at my in laws place is dreadful. Whenever we met, she behaved so rudely, taunts, offensive jokes and after that just kidding laugh of her. She always made fun of my complexion apparently I had nothing else to point out at.
She once said in front of all family members that she feels like throwing me out of the window, bring me back by dragging me and throwing me again. I was shocked by hearing her sudden outburst of feelinfs, Amount of hate she had for me is so unbelievable. I also replied that I feel like complaining to police. She offended with it, my husband was angry for my words.
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I have so many things to point out and give her befitting reply, but I don't, its because of my upbringing and my etiquettes.
